Support for Supporters
Is my loved one in a harmful relationship?
Recognizing that a loved one may be in an abusive relationship can be difficult and heart-wrenching. Abuse isn’t always physical; it can include emotional manipulation, control, isolation, or intimidation. You might notice changes in their behavior, such as withdrawing from friends and family, making excuses for their partner’s actions, or showing signs of fear or anxiety when discussing their relationship.
While it’s natural to feel unsure about how to approach the situation, understanding and recognizing these patterns is the first step in supporting them and helping them find the resources they need to break free.
Watching the Signs Survey
Our Watching the Signs Survey is designed to help friends and family identify potential signs of abuse in a loved one’s situation. This thoughtful and non-invasive tool provides insight into common patterns of abuse, helping you better understand what they might be experiencing. By recognizing the red flags, you can offer informed support and guide them toward resources that can help. Together, we can make a difference in their journey toward safety and healing.
How Can I Help?
The most helpful thing you can do for a loved one in an abusive situation is to offer unwavering support and never give up on them.
It’s important to listen without judgment, validate their feelings, and remind them that they are not alone. Leaving an abusive relationship can be incredibly difficult and may take time, so patience and consistent encouragement are key. Let them know you are there for them, no matter how many times they struggle or return to the relationship. Your steady presence and belief in their strength can make all the difference, giving them the confidence and reassurance they need to take steps toward safety and healing when they are ready.
We know this is sometimes easier said than done. Watching your loved one remain in a harmful situation can feel impossible. We want you to know you’re not alone.
We invite you to join our FREE community for friends and families of loved ones in abusive relationships, Support for Supporters. This is a virtual space where you can share your experiences, discuss challenges, and receive support from others who understand.